If there are misconceptions about the type of person you are, it’s good to clear them up as soon as possible. And, plain talk is always the best policy. So, if you’re okay with the servant, your husband, the maid, your neighbor, simply placing something for you on a table near you, rather than waiting for you to get off the phone with your secret lover, and handing it to you directly, then make sure these people in your life know that.
Oh, and always wear gloves and pearls. I’m talking both men and women of course.